Really! I would have not thought it. But yes, I assumed they all were women as well (just because on the internet in general seem to be more women, discussion all the ships in TV shows and writing fanfictions etc.).

I only got suspicious when they discussed wanting to build an army of Jaffa figures and wanted space-ships and doing fights, and when they commented on the size of the boobs of the Sam Carter figure ;)

I don't have any experience with relationships whatsoever, and can do what pleases me without asking anyone, but I think the key would be having a box with money each contributes to, which goes for the rent of the apartment or whatever else bill has to be paid, but everyone also should have an ammount for themselves, which they can spend as they want, without having to answer any quesstion. Like pocket money for children.