Life would be so boring without fandom and the internet! Only working, watching TV and sleeping. And ultimately dying. Boring.
Yeah, but I was so puzzled and it came so out of the blue, I literally was speechless and had no response. The right response probably would have been saying that I am asexual and thanks, don't need a husband. Maybe I would have done that if we had been alone, but there were like six more people standing around us and I don't think this is a topic for the workplace. And if hey haven't figured it out by now, I can't really help them.
In general, I am of the opinion that we won't have true equality as long as it is expected from gay people to announce to everyone that they are gay. Why? Why not just living your life, and casually mentioning your significant other, and let the others draw their own conclusions. If hey have questions, they can ask. Like Matt Bomer did it, in thanking his husband publically after receiving an award. There had been rumors and pictures before, and so this drew a bit of attention, which surprised him. He said he just did what everyone would have done in that situation.
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Yeah, but I was so puzzled and it came so out of the blue, I literally was speechless and had no response. The right response probably would have been saying that I am asexual and thanks, don't need a husband. Maybe I would have done that if we had been alone, but there were like six more people standing around us and I don't think this is a topic for the workplace. And if hey haven't figured it out by now, I can't really help them.
In general, I am of the opinion that we won't have true equality as long as it is expected from gay people to announce to everyone that they are gay. Why? Why not just living your life, and casually mentioning your significant other, and let the others draw their own conclusions. If hey have questions, they can ask. Like Matt Bomer did it, in thanking his husband publically after receiving an award. There had been rumors and pictures before, and so this drew a bit of attention, which surprised him. He said he just did what everyone would have done in that situation.